Thursday, July 24, 2008

It's Begun...

So I'm engaged, now what? I tell you what... a lot of planning that's what. It's begun. We are starting to plan our May 30, 2009 wedding and it's really overwhelming. So many details go into planning but I'm confident and ready to get this ball rolling. I have chosen locations (even though nothing is booked yet) at First Baptist Church in Lubbock. It's the church I grew up in and it's going to be beautiful.The Louis Hopkins Underwood Center for the Arts is where I want to have the reception. It's this really neat art gallery down town across from the Civic Center. It's going to be amazing. Now I have to book these locations and start working out the details. I asked Brittany, my future sister-in-law, to be my matron of honor and we are both so excited about it. It's so much fun planning our weddings together. I also am asking my friend Kari in Oklahoma to be a bridesmaid and I asked my dear friend Shanda Hasse to be a bridesmaid. She is 8 1/2 months pregnant and expecting a baby boy Noah Thomas any day now. So much fun. I'm also going to ask all of Brandon's nieces to be in the bridal party. Korrie will be a bridesmaid. She's 16 and so beautiful and spunky. Alyssa is her sister and is 12 and will be a junior bridesmaid. Kymberlee his other niece who's 10 will be a junior bridesmaid as well and her little sister Ashleigh is 5 and will be my flower girl. I'm so excited. I really want it to be a family affair. All of these girls mean so much to me and I'm honored for them to serve as my attendants. I made these cards that I sent them to ask each one of them to be in my bridal party. I illustrated them and printed them myself. They turned out cute . I chose my colors!!!!!!!! I think. I have changed my mind about 10 times though, but I made this board of inspiration that solidified my decision. They're Chartreuse and Indigo Blue with Ivory accents. I'm so pleased about this color combo. If anyone has any ideas let me know.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

I'm Engaged!!!!!!! Can you believe it?

Well it finally happened. The best day of my life. The day when the best man I know, the guy who has changed my life for the better, asked me to marry him. It was the best proposal ever. It was more than I could ever have hoped for or imagine. We planned to take a trip to San Antonio for the 4th of July weekend. We were staying downtown at the Hilton on the Riverwalk and it was going to be just an amazing mini-vacation (so I thought.) We got to San Antonio Thursday evening and Brandon had planned for us to go to this amazing restaurant and vineyard in the hill country called The Vineyards. We shared a very romantic meal with great food, wine and conversation. We talked about our life and how much we meant to each other. The restaurant part is back in this glassed in sun room and you could see the sun setting over the hills and across the vineyard. We were the last reservation that night so by the time we were finished with our meal the place was almost empty. There were candles lit everywhere and soft music playing in the background. I thought to myself, this would be the perfect place to get engaged. I wasn't getting my hopes up though. The waiter came by and asked if we wanted dessert, and of course we did. I then came back a little bit later and said that the wait staff had prepared our dessert for us outside in the vineyard. I asked Brandon if he knew about any of this and he said it must have been because it was our first time there. Lie!!!! We were then escorted down the stairs and down a long walkway to a white table that had chocolate covered strawberries and creme brulé. The walkway was more like an atrium covered with vines that were exposed to view the night sky. It was also covered with tiny white Christmas lights. It was beautiful out there. The waiter said to take our time and he left. It was just me and Brandon out there by ourselves surrounded by this romantic set up. My heart started beating really fast. Brandon said Jennifer I love you, I just want you to know you make me a better man and I can't imagine spending my life without you. He then proceeded to get down on one knee and said "Jennifer Elise Holmes will you marry me?" I was shocked and said "really?" and hugged him with tears in my eyes and said "Yes!" Then I saw the ring so I screamed. It was the best moment ever. I was just so thrilled and surprised. He had bought me the ring I had picked out months before and Robert Lance Jewelers and I was so in love with this ring. We just laughed and hugged and kissed and I was shaking and couldn't stop smiling. The waiter came back and took pictures of us. I immediately called my mom and she had already knew it was coming. Brandon had gone to both my mom and my dad to ask permission to marry me and that meant so much to me. I then called my brother who didn't believe me but was so happy for me. I called my dad and he was trilled as well. As we were driving away we noticed that the parking lot, which is not covered in gravel but rather colored glass, was sparkling in the moonlight. It was so neat. For the rest of the weekend I was the happiest girl on earth and I couldn't stop looking at my ring. I love Brandon so much. He's the best guy I know and I love him for so many reasons. I can't wait to marry him and become Mrs. Brandon Hughes! "Jennifer Elise Hughes", I like the sound of that. Wedding details to come later, but our tentative date right now is May 30, 2009!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

It's July!!!!!!!!!

So I haven't blogged in almost a month. Man how time flies. Well it's July and nothing too much has happened. My brother moved to Dallas and I'm sad, but he's having a great time. He and his fiancé Brittany had their engagement pictures taken out near Post, TX a week or so ago. Here are some of my favorites.
There are so many to choose from. Shan Renee is their photographer. I'm excited about the winter wedding in Austin. It's going to be amazing. I'm designing there Save the Date cards and wedding invitations. I'll post those as soon as they approve the final design.

Brandon and I are going to San Antonio for the 4th and I'll post some pics from our trip when I get back.

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Relationships

Yesterday was my grandparents (my mom's parents) Alice and "Big Ern's" 64th wedding Anniversary. Wow, that is amazing. They are wonderful people who have shown me that relationships do work. They met in high school and were friends, but I think Grandaddy had other ideas. My grandmother, Mamere, however had a list before she would marry anyone. One, He must be a Christian. Two, he must be a Baptist, and Three, he must make at least $200 a month to support her. However, soon as she saw Ernie in his military uniform and wings it was all over. My Grandaddy was a pilot in WWII. Before he shipped off to Europe they were married on June 3, 1944 in Tucson, Arizona. They have been through plenty together. They have three children including my mom and five grandchildren and one great grandchild. They really inspire me. I can only hope Brandon and I will have that kind of sustaining and loving relationship. Here are some pics from our dinner last night at Rockfish where we celebrated the happy occasion.Another relationship that has grown is my brother Jonathan and his "finance" Brittany's. That's what he calls her instead of his fiancé. They have been together since high school and are now engaged. They got engaged April 19th in Santa Fe, NM. They are truly a great couple and I'm proud to welcome Brittany into our family. I have a sister now which is really great since I have had to put up with my one little brother my whole life. They are planning a January 3, 2009 wedding in Austin, TX and I'm a bridesmaid which is exciting. I know it will be a beautiful wedding. It's funny how life is. On the one hand my parents marriage of 33 years has now ended at the same time Jonathan and Brittany's is just beginning. But so is life. Where there is sadness there is happiness. I'm happy for them and wish them the best as they begin this new chapter in their lives.

Thursday, May 29, 2008

A Trip to Grandma's House

This past weekend Brandon and I went to Oklahoma to visit his 89 year old Grandma. She is one of the most genuine, amazing, beautiful person I have ever known. I have been privileged to know her. Irene Walker is her name and she is proud of it. She is the widow of the late Tella Walker who is Brandon's beloved Grandpa who unfortunately I never had the chance to meet. However, Grandma keeps his memory alive and every time we come for a visit I feel like I know him more and more. Grandma is the funniest and the most talkative woman ever. She says the cutest things and doesn't even realize it. She's getting around pretty well considering she is 89. We took her to breakfast Saturday morning and then to a couple of antique and gift malls after that. I really love her and cherish the times we spend with her. One of the most attractive qualities of Brandon is the way he treats his grandma. He loves her with all his heart and it's a beautiful relationship that he has with her.
Last Thanksgiving we went to Oklahoma to visit her and while I was there I borrowed some things from her house to paint a still life painting for Brandon's Christmas present in tribute to her and the love she has for her daughter, Brandon's mom, who pasted away. I never had the chance to meet Gayla either, but her memory is very much alive in Grandma's house. Needless to say I had his whole family crying the night we showed off the painting. It was a great moment in my life and I was proud I was able to capture something like that in paint. The woman in the photo is Brandon's mom when she was a young girl and the objects represent things she loved. Here is the still life I set up. I wish I had a pic of the actual painting though.
On a much lighter note, Brandon and I also got to go to the Oklahoma City Zoo. It was a lot of fun, but very hot and I was so tired from walking when we got home that I passed out and took a long nap. Here are some photos from our fun day...

Friday, May 23, 2008

How Conference Boston 2008



So I thought I would start my sharing some things about my trip this past weekend to Boston. I belong to this really geeky wonderful and highly over stimulated club called "Graphic Designers." This past weekend I joined many club members at the Mecca for visual communicators called The How Conference. It was pretty much amazing. I loved every second of it. I came back with a better appreciation myself and a better understanding of where I should go from here. My career lately has been very up and down and I feel like being in Boston really refreshed me professionally and promoted me an my co-worker Susie (aka "sassy pants") to really step up our game. I got a lot of free stuff including 7 free t-shirts, enjoyed fresh seafood and wine, made new acquaintances in my field from all over the country and world, and got an overview of one of the best cities in the US. Overall it was one of the best experiences of my life and I can't wait for next year. How Conference Austin 2009 Baby, here we come!!!!

So Here I am World!!!

I have arrived, so to speak, on this wonderful crazy phenom we call blogging. I thought if everyone and their dog were now doing this so should I, even though my life might not seem so relevant as other bloggers. However, I'm ready to start this journey online and throw myself out there for all to read and I hope someone cares.